"A Rogerian Approach To Perfect Communications" in "An Introduction to Organisational Behaviour for Managers and Engineers: A Group and Multicultural Approach" by Duncan Kitchin (2010) pp.176-177, UK: Routledge.
The exercise described by Kitchin (a former colleague) is well-suited to translation into social partnered dance, and it stimulates each participant broadly to ask:
- Is that what I wanted my partner to feel?
- Has my partner understood what I feel about ritmo (dance and music alike)?
Partnered, to music. Caribbean sway basic, to Caribbean partnered hold.
- "Pay attention to how your partner moves: the qualities of movement, the timing."
- "Use what you're seeing and feeling to construct a mental image of your partner as you dance."
- "You may find it useful to do this with your eyes open and shut."
- "Build as rich a picture of your partner as you possibly can."
Exercise Two: Embodying the rich picture
Partnered, to music. Caribbean sway basic, to Caribbean partnered hold.
- "Holding the rich picture firmly in you head, dance the rich picture."
Exercise Three: Validating the rich picture
New partners. Partnered, to music. Caribbean sway basic, to Caribbean partnered hold.
- "Holding the rich picture of your previous partner firmly in you head, embody the rich picture."
Note: this could be done because the solares participants have become familiar with each others' ritmo over the years.
Observations
The ability to characterise i.e. construct a rich picture, then embody it, varied between the participants; ranging from a lack (due to misconstruation) to accurate enough to elicit excited exclamations of "it feels like I'm dancing with *name of other participant*!"
Where the point of the exercises were misconstrued, both partners, instead of constructing a rich image of the other, each created an identical rich image hybrid of the other and themselves. In other words, instead of:
- Partner A creating-and-embodying a rich picture of Partner B and vice versa,
- Partner A created-and-embodied a rich picture hybrid of Partner A+B, as did Partner B.
As the exercises ran through several iterations, the delight led increasingly to a distortion of the rich image into caricature - an over-emphasis of the other's traits. I cautioned that while caricature was fun and would make certain traits more obvious, this might limit the usefulness of the 'Human Dance Recorder' practice as a means of personal reflexion. Exaggeration would make it difficult for the recipient to:
- evaluate the qualitative extent of a trait;
- decide whether it should be modified; and
- how to prioritise its correction relative to other traits in a heirarchy of correction.
Closing
The session ended with three questions for reflexion.
"What is this 'Chapter: Characterisation' about?"
"What skills are needed?"
"Why is this useful?"
Loo Yeo
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